Why Moldovan girls are so eager to marry foreigners
Marriage migration phenomenon, originated in the mid-90s, it is now not just a trend. Last year, every fifth wedding in Moldova was international. What is the reason for the popularity of such marriages and wouldn't “export of brides” turn into serious problem for Moldova in the future?
Husband as a means of transportation
Moldova can safely claim to be a new record for the Guinness Book. Over the past five years, Moldova’s “wedding geography” covered 53 countries. And demand for overseas suitors is growing steadily. According to surveys, every third Moldovan woman does not hide her matrimonial intentions toward the West.
What it is connected with a “suitcase mood” or the desire for a better life, or the infamous “love knows no boundaries”? The number of Moldovan girls marriages with foreigners is really growing steadily upwards. Official registration can take place both at home of bride and at groom’s home, as well as in embassies and consular offices. Some of these marriages are simply unknown, as there is no repeated registration in Moldova.
According to all the data collected, it was concluded 5084 marriages of Moldovan women with foreigners. Many women marry foreigners in an attempt to solve their financial problems. But never forget that for any deception, sooner or later one have to pay.
Some think Moldovan woman are stretched abroad primarily by the instinct of motherhood. They want their children to grow up in better conditions than in Moldova. And this desire of Moldovan women is understandable. And if a woman marries a foreigner for love, how can anyone get in the way?! Till the age of the world together with beloved man!
Marriages with so-called “foreign element” in terms of Moldovan legal regulation are more difficult that regular marriages. Although the Moldovan family law is fairly liberal in terms of conclusion and registration of marriages with foreigners. This requires only two conditions: a mutual desire and achievement of the age of majority.
Western men are mercilessly choking with feminism
Not only Moldovan women tend to find their own happiness abroad. More and more men from abroad visit Moldova to keep an eye on future wife. What are the causes of such a “marriage tourism” prosperity and why are Moldova girls better than their foreign contemporaries? The main reason that attracts foreign men to Moldovan women is, of course, their beauty. Moldova is located at the geographical crossroads, where ever there is a mixture of bloods, so Moldova is one of the leaders in Europe by the number of really beautiful women.
However, the phenomenon of “marriage migration” can be explained in terms of other aspects. In the US there are 8 million more women than man. The former Soviet Union is the opposite – 15 million more women than men! In America there is simply not enough women. Another point is law against sexual harassment. In the US women literally see its manifestation in everything – even in compliments. American men so intimidated by these criminal sanctions retribution that just in case they stopped to say to women nice words at all. American women are very emancipated, cold enough and got calculated manners, they know their rights very well.
Therefore, Western men come to the place where they could find more simplicity, they are looking for romanticism, sacrifice – qualities that are more than enough kept among Moldovan women. For the same elderly Texas cowboy a half thousand dollars on a flight to Moldova is not money at all! In Moldova, by the well-known reasons, there might be dozens of young and beautiful girls – pretenders to his hand and heart.
Moldovan women find western men some coveted for their knights. Moldovan men representatives have a strong desire to give his wife advises, to indicate what she has to do and it does not much bother themselves. Foreign man allows woman to be a woman – flexible, soft, economical. In such situation he gets pleasure from the fact of taking care of his wife. It seems most women who go abroad, certainly not chase status, they are willing to sacrifice it. They agree to keep the role of a housewife, but Moldovan men do not allow this to them.
Might be that foreigners are attracted to Moldovan women of their insecurity. Offended by her husband and slamming the door, in Moldova woman can leave to he mother, friend, and there, in a foreign country, it is impossible. Women from Moldova are more obedient, more vulnerable, more manageable abroad. Of course, western men are attracted primarily beauty. With a minimum of money they can look good and impress. In the West, women are wallowed in feminism, do not care much about their appearance, prefer “unisex” style, and looking from the back it is often not clear who is that – male or female?
Virtual matchmaker – trust but verify?
With the advent of the World Wide Web the problem of finding the second “half” has simplified extremely. You need only to register and fill out a form on the corresponding website. That’s how often Moldovan girls get to know with foreigners, but none of them is safe from the malice of Internet fraud.